Playing with a Spoon
Here's What To Do
During mealtime, let me practice using a spoon. At first I'll probably play with it. Then, help me guide the spoon to my mouth by placing your hand gently over mine.
Use foods that stick to the spoon to encourage success (like: yogurt, mashed potatoes, or mashed banana).
Offer me a pre-filled spoon. I won't know how to scoop food myself yet.
Let me play with spoons during playtime. I could use a spoon to bang on a drum, dig in the sand, or enjoy using it as a teether.
Put PEER Into Action
Pause:
- If I'm eating, make sure I'm sitting in a high chair. Give me a big smile.
Engage:
- "Yes, this spoon is very fun to bang! Do you know what else you use it for? You can use it to scoop food into your mouth!"
- "Can Papa help you use the spoon? Bring it up to your mouth like this."
Encourage:
- If I can hold the spoon pretty well on my own, you can gently hold my wrist to help guide the spoon to my mouth while still giving me independence.
- Expect, prepare for, and allow a mess! Let me practice using a spoon before bath time and in an easy-to-clean area.
Reflect:
- Is there one type of spoon I seem to have an easier time with? I may have more success with a smaller baby spoon.
Not quite ready?
If I'm not interested in eating with a spoon, continue allowing me to play with spoons. This will help me get more comfortable with them.
Ready for more?
Over time, I will be able to use a spoon independently. At first, I will probably turn the spoon over when I bring it to my mouth. With more practice, I'll be able to successfully use a spoon (with some spilling, of course!).
As your child masters this skill...
They will become familiar with spoons and how to use them.