Playing Independently
Here's What To Do
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Watch me when I'm playing alone and notice the types of toys that hold my attention the longest. Some toys that many kids my age enjoy:
- Blocks or empty boxes
- Dolls, stuffed animals, and accessories (play bottles, clothes, etc.)
- Play kitchen, food, tea set
- Play doctor kit
- Toy cars
- Simple puzzles
- Play dough
2
I might need some changes to my play environment to help me focus. Too many toys can be overwhelming. Noises like people talking or TV in the background can be distracting.
3
Play with me to help keep me on task. Over time, reduce your interaction with me so I can play by myself for longer.
4
I learn most by doing and experiencing. Try to provide toys and materials that help me use my imagination.
Put PEER Into Action
P
Pause:
- Pause for a moment and watch me play by myself.
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Engage:
- Consider if it might be helpful to add some different types of toys to our home, or to take away some toys so I'm not overwhelmed.
- When you'd like me to try playing by myself, set out a toy or two and give me an idea of how to play with it.
E
Encourage:
- If I start to lose interest when playing by myself, try to give me ideas to keep the play going. Like: "What does your baby doll need? Is she hungry? Does she need a diaper?"
- Praise my play, like: "Wow, you were having so much fun playing with those cars all by yourself. Nice work!"
R
Reflect:
- Am I able to play by myself for a minute or two? Or do I still need someone else to help me play?
As your child grows...
They will be able to play independently for longer stretches of time and with less help from adults.