Join the Fun
Here's What To Do
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Take your child to a playground. Sit with your child near others who are playing. Gently point out what the other children are doing, such as playing ball or climbing.
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Show your child how to copy their actions, like joining them on the climbing equipment, or playing with a ball.
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Acknowledge their willingness to join in the fun and play with others.
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Keep at it, letting your child become more familiar and comfortable trying new things with others in their community.
Put PEER Into Action
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Pause:
- Settle yourself with your child in a community playground or park.
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Engage:
- “What kinds of things are your friends doing? Which one would you like to try?”
- “What else could we do to play together?”
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Encourage:
- “I like how you’re watching and trying new things with your friends!”
- "It’s okay if you want to just watch for a while. Let’s try to join the others in a few minutes.”
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Reflect:
- “How did it feel when you joined in?”
Not quite ready?
Practice with a stuffed animal copying your child’s movements before joining real play.
Ready for more?
Encourage your child to invite others by using gestures, like handing a toy to a friend or saying, “Come play!”
As your child masters this skill...
They will be able to successfully engage in play with another child.